How to stop lying to yourself?

The cost of lying to yourself: It’s more than you think...

Hey,

It’s Alex.

When you don’t know yourself…

When you don’t know what makes you sparkle inside.

You can convince yourself to do incredibly hard things that aren’t important to you.

And at some point, you can start lying to yourself that everything is fine…

• “Everyone’s doing it.”

• “It’s just how it’s supposed to be.”

But deep down, you know it’s just 💩 you’re selling to others.

A mask you wear in front of people, just to make sure you look okay in their eyes.

I bought everything I ever wanted…

At some point, I finally made it.

I started making more than I could spend.

It wasn’t millions, but it was more than enough to buy everything I’d ever wanted.

I’m not a very materialistic person, so the wish list was small — new clothes, a laptop, some gadgets. The rest I invested (thank God).

But as you might already know because everyone talks about it…

“Money can’t buy happiness.”

And buying new “toys” didn’t bring me long-term fulfillment.

At some point in life, you’ll make enough money to allow yourself to suffer.

You see…

• When you no longer have to stress about paying rent.

• When you have enough cash for the next few years.

Something interesting starts to happen.

Slowly, you start losing motivation for the things you used to like.

The job becomes boring.

Friends who are still hustling for what you’ve already achieved make you feel like you don’t belong.

Suddenly, it’s harder to start your day and push forward.

• To push to start a new project.

• To make more money.

• To buy more stuff.

More and more…

But because you’re no longer in survival mode,

You just don’t care.

So why can’t you just be grateful and enjoy what you’ve built?

Why are you suffering? People would give everything to have what you have.

Because this pain:

The pain of boredom and lack of meaning.

It comes from the little boy inside of you who was hoping that, after all this hustle, you’d finally start noticing him.

He gave you a decade to chase your “big dreams” and buy the toys you ever wanted.

And now…

When there’s finally space for something more meaningful, he won’t let you destroy it by inventing another project that only leads to another stack of money you don’t even need.

Only if this money is going to come together with his needs.

When there’s no survival mode, meaning starts to pop up.

When you’re hungry for money?

You do what you’re supposed to do.

• You do it for your family.

• You do it because you have to.

• You do it because there is no time for meaning.

But when you finally make it…

When you have enough to pause and breathe.

There’s no point in looking for motivation where you used to.

It’s not there anymore.

• The hopelessness that you can’t keep doing the job you’ve done for a decade.

• The pain of feeling unproductive.

• Procrastination of a teenager.

All this? It’s a sign that you’re ready to uncover your true self.

Your real desires, skills, and powers.

These signals put you in a position where you can’t lie to yourself anymore.

You can’t keep saying everything is okay when you know it’s not.

You can’t keep playing business as usual.

You can’t hold the mask longer.

So… From this place of confusion, you decided to work on yourself.

You try to work with a psychotherapist or a coach…

And we? We are people you can’t lie to.

We won’t buy “your story”.

Because we’ve heard too many of them…

Our professional goal is to increase your self-awareness to such a high level that lying to yourself becomes disgustingly “expensive”.

Because once you truly see yourself…

Your true self.

You can’t keep living and doing business as usual.

Eventually, choices have to be made, whether it’s about your job, relationships, or health. These are not an easy choices.

They’re hard.

And sometimes ugly.

But remember one thing:

When you’re 70 years old, and you look back on your life.

You should feel that you were honest with yourself.

That you didn’t run away from that little boy inside of you.

The one who was trying to guide you, talk to you, and help you find your way back to yourself.

That little boy represents your soul.

Your true self, and you should listen to it more often.

Apply for 1:1 coaching with me.

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• Explosive business growth.

• Winning habits and work routines.

• Neuroscience-based brain & time management.

• Turning big ideas into results fast.

• And… Getting rid of any inner blocks that cause you to self-sabotage.

Reply “I’m In” to this email, and I’ll send you the details.

Take care,

Alex

Result coach for business owners & entrepreneurs.