No desire to work anymore?
From happy Digital Nomad to loneliness and despair. (My story)
Hey,
It's Alex.
I think most people may lose desire for their work at some point in their career.
This moment...
Where there is no energy and passion anymore to push and push in your business.
Let me show you what you can do in this situation.
Even if right now everything is great in your business (or life).
But first...
Let me share a story of how I lost my passion.
From happy Digital Nomad to loneliness and despair.
It was 3 years ago.
I was sitting in my favorite cozy coffee shop.
Checking non-stop Facebook campaigns of one of my clients that I had.
I just got out of a long-term business partnership with a feeling of betrayal towards me.
I earned the amount of money that I had ever wanted.
But I had no idea what I should do next…
I got so used to working in a team that instead of taking a break from everything, I immediately started a new project with new partners.
And what, of course, happened?
The project ended like a disaster.
Only after starting another 3-4 new projects with different people, ALL of which, of course, flopped.
I finally hit rock bottom and started to listen to myself.
I just couldn't live in a lie anymore.
I couldn't stand my day.
I couldn't look anymore at my laptop.
I was so sick of everything…
I was in such pain that the only thing I wanted to do was run away.
And this is exactly what I did.
Instead of getting into some nonsense project again just to make more money without any kind of meaning behind it.
I traveled instead.
Started a new relationship (and made like 2000 pictures)
I changed my country of residency.
I mean, I know that I got wild with my decisions…
But I just couldn't lie to myself anymore that everything was okay.
So...
I made so many different and new choices that I already forgot how I was when I started all these changes.
I even look different in the mirror (and no, it's not my haircut.)
And now.
When I look back on myself.
Sitting there… In this sad coffee shop doing the same thing without any kind of passion and desire.
I realize how miserable my life actually was.
Don’t get me wrong…
On paper, I had everything.
But inside?
Uff… like this part of Voldemort’s soul at King’s Cross station at the end of the Harry Potter movie.
I had endless possibilities around me.
But It's like I couldn't see all the beauty around because of my deep pain of desperation and boredom from my lifestyle.
I'm not special.
It's just back then... I hit a breaking point and couldn't live in a lie anymore.
You see...
We ALL, from time to time, lie to ourselves.
We know that we can do better.
We know that we procrastinate.
We know that we don't make the changes that we should make.
So
When you are in this place...
Where there is no desire and energy anymore to push and push the reality that you live in.
When the business is stuck, and nothing is changing.
Remember that you can only see part of the picture.
There is always something deeper going around than what you just feel and see.
And you do have a choice.
You can choose to stay there…
In this place of despair until, you finally hit the bottom.
Or you can be brave enough to fight your reality together with me.
You see…
One of the reasons why I became a coach.
It's because in the moment when I hit the bottom, I stayed with that pain alone...
And it took me a huge amount of energy to be brave enough to ask for help.
Don't be stubborn like me. Life is too short for that.
So I’m reminding you that this month, I’m helping 10 people to rediscover their passion in the business (or life) without getting out of their comfort zone and therapy.
So they can have new momentum in their business (or life) and make more money.
(2 places have already been taken).
Reply to this email: "I'm interested"
And I will send you the details.
P.S. Send it to someone who needs a change.
Take care,
Alex
12 years in Business.
Executive Ontological Coach.